Evaluating potential co-founders? Try going camping.
Time commitment: Less than 5 minutes.
Choosing co-founders might be the most important decision you make in your business when you’re getting started. A business is lot like a marriage. Co-founders commit to long term entanglements shaped as much by each co-founder’s weaknesses as by their strengths. Yes, you need to find co-founders whose strengths complement your own, but you also need co-founders whose weaknesses are tolerable, manageable, and don’t somehow exacerbate your own shortcomings. With marriage we’ve developed a loose system of courtship designed to help us evaluate potential mates. But how do you evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of a potential co-founder? Try going camping.
Just as in a new business, camping puts you in an unfamiliar environment to solve problems you don’t usually face (e.g. building a fire, etc.), and solutions to more pedestrian problems like food, water, and shelter become a new challenge.
You should stay in smallest tent that will fit all of your co-founders. It will be uncomfortable, and you will be getting in each other’s way at times. That’s the point. Starting a business is close quarters, and you will be sharing more of yourself with your co-founders than you might imagine. Your relationships with each other will be some of your biggest stressors, and the opportunity to experience those relationships under stress will let you see how well you can manage it.
You should make your camping trip as long as is safe and practical. Hopefully long enough for the novelty of camping to wear off a bit. As in camping, there’s a lot of excitement when you first start your business. That will fade eventually and what you will be left with is problems to solve and co-founders to solve them with. When the camping trip gets old it’s comforting to know relief is coming soon. The commitment is low. Everything from your real life is waiting for you right where you left it. But when you start a business, you are fundamentally changing your life, and making your co-founders a permanent piece of who you are, even if your business eventually ends. It would be nice to experience the best and the worst they have to offer before you make a life-altering commitment to them.
Also, camping is really really fun.
